I am 50 percent responsible for my relationship with anyone else and 100 percent responsible for my relationship with myself.
If someone is continually judgemental, run from that relationship. It is an energy drainer and not an energizing relationship. Voice of a closed mind is judgement. Suspending judgement is difficult.
How often do I give a false "yes" to please, to conform, to avoid conflict? How many false "yes's" before the resentment becomes too much?
If I only use 10 percent, of what I give others, on myself, what a difference it could make.
How did the same Creator make me and make Trump, Hitler, the criminals, the others I struggle with? God created each of us. He created my spouse. He created Trump. He created Hitler. He created everyone. How is that? How do we differ so much in how we treat others? If the other person is as human as I am, how do I observe without judgement? Can I?
People stay in unhealthy relationships - better to stay in the known than what I don't know.
Safety vs Purpose? Safety can be the danger zone.
Deconstruct to allow something new to appear in the visible.
Let go of the trapeze to grasp the next one.
Fear inhibits the letting go
Fear can be when we are frozen.
Change your ego. Change your story. Change your story. Change your life.
What is my request?
Have to let go to let come.
Love has no conditions.
Safety= Fear
